On the first page of my journal, on the day we first left the country, I wrote the words, “Don’t look away.” because I wanted this trip to be about making a difference and doing what it takes to stop injustice. So far we’ve engaged in small acts like giving food to the hungry, petitioning for the people in Nepal and protesting the military in Burma. We are now in Cambodia and I’m down to the very last page of my journal where I’ve written these same words again except this time it’s, “DON’T LOOK AWAY!” in big bold letters and ink-smudged from my tears. I guess you could say Cambodia is making a difference to my story as well…
I’m sitting on a public bench in the popular riverside district of Phnom Penh. During the day this is where hundreds of tourists are having lunch with their kids, shopping at the markets, touring the temples and taking pleasant walks along the river. It’s 9:30 at night and the tourist scene has changed from family friendly to dark dance clubs outlined in red lights with names like 69 bar and hearts of darkness.
My bench is across the street where I watch foreign men of all shapes and sizes walk into these camouflaged brothels. Every time the door opens I can see young girls (too young) inside dressed up like dolls in small, revealing outfits. Every time the door closes a new tear falls into my lap. My soul is weeping for these girls as I think about the night they are about to have. I pour out my anger and sadness to God with questions… Why is this happening? Why am I sitting here and not running in there to help these girls? As I continue to look into the darkness of these brothels, my soul yearns for life to be better; for light to shine in the darkness; for these girls to be rescued and restored and for them to have a new story.
In Cambodia an estimated 40,000 to 60,000 young girls are forced sex workers. Of those, the average age of a survivor is 15 years old. Many girl’s lives are decimated through the horror of being sexually, physically, and emotionally abused and they have little to no hope for a future, for a new story. There is a dire need for quality aftercare services that can restore hope to these precious young girls.
My friend Brad Riley of iEmpathize told me about James and Athena Pond before our trip started and that they would be in Cambodia the same time we would be. The Pond’s have committed their lives to making a difference in the lives of these girls that have been rescued from sex-trafficking. In 2007 they established a non-profit organization called Transitions Global. Transitions provides trauma recovery to girls between the ages of 13-18 years old who have been sexually exploited or abused and then assists them with re-integrating back into society. Shaun and I have volunteered to photograph their aftercare programs here in Phnom Penh and in doing so we’ve witnessed hope for a future and new beginnings for these girls as healthy, independent adults.
One of their programs is called the Dream Home where the girls live in a safe, secure family environment with house moms, social workers and even a Nintendo Wii for some ‘Little Big Planet’ fun. Each girl receives personalized care to heal from her past while acquiring life, social and career skills as well. James says, “recovery starts with simple choices, like letting the girls pick what color toothbrush they want to use or what clothes they want to wear that day.” We photographed the girls at cooking class where they worked together, learning how to prepare traditional Khmer dishes while wearing adorable aprons and chef hats. We sat in the classroom as they learned English, computer skills and video editing. We went skateboarding and fell in love with their energy, happiness and friendship for one another. We watched as they would fall off the boards and get right back up with smilies on their faces. It was amazing to see how strong and resilient the girls were; rather than letting failure overcome them, they recovered like champs and tried again.
Creative acts of recovery and restoration is what Transitions is doing to make a difference in the lives of young girls that have experienced significant trauma. They have chosen to live a story that helps others heal and have a future. The truth is, if what we choose to do with our lives won’t make a story meaningful, it won’t make a life meaningful either. And being in Cambodia, watching the staff of Transitions help in creating new stories for these girls, well… it has inspired me to live a life that has meaning and makes a difference: A life that doesn’t look away.
You can read more about Transitions Global by clicking this link to visit their website.